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Slightly filtered observations on news from Christmas break
Jan27

Slightly filtered observations on news from Christmas break

Over the holidays, it’s easy to get behind on current events. Spending time with family, going out of town on vacation and catching up with old friends all take importance over staying glued to CNN’s breaking news coverage. But have no fear. I have compiled an unbiased and objective re-cap of events all people should have handy in their brains in case of an awkward back-to-school conversation about current events, as well as the tools you need to make this semester a smashing success. The economy boarded the train to Hades, but everyone has known that for awhile. However, it’s just been recently that the “nonpartisan” National Bureau of Economic Research and other Dow Jones monitors have publicly admitted that America bought the one-way ticket in December 2007. Don’t worry. Economists say it will be back to pick up any forgotten passengers in 2010. The job market, well…it’s not looking so good. To say the least, there have been better times to graduate and find a career. But look at the bright side. Thirty years from now, when your grandchildren are sitting on your knees, you can tell them how you overcame the odds and got a job during the great recession of 2009. If all else fails, Whataburger is hiring managers for the night shift. In this recession, as religious leaders will say, pride cometh before a fall, or in this case, America’s fall before its people’s pride. To those in a serious relationship fulfilling the over-clichéd joke of “ring by spring” that trails through every corner of the Quad and then some, your expectations for a fabulous wedding have been set. A couple in Normal, Ill, exchanged vows over hot sauce packets in Taco Bell. After nine months of cyber dating, Caragh Brooks and Paul Brooks are now Mr. and Mrs. Paul and Caragh Brooks after a $200 wedding that made national news. No, they were not immediate relatives, and, yes the sauce packets displayed, “Will you marry me?” So, my fine Crusader gentlemen, don’t waste college loan money on a fancy ceremony. Grab your lady and head to the nearest fast food joint. If she really cares for you, she’ll understand. In other news, yet another political scandal rings in the New Year as Illinois Gov. Rod Blagojevich is on the road to impeachment for abuse of power and engaging in “a plot to obtain a personal benefit in exchange for his appointment to fill the vacant seat in the U.S. Senate.” There’s nothing like political distrust in the governing body supposedly protecting our rights. That Illinois seat was previously held by President Barack Obama, which...

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Hail to the Chief: Americans should put politics aside, wish President Obama the best
Jan27

Hail to the Chief: Americans should put politics aside, wish President Obama the best

President Barack Obama. Three months ago that phrase would have sent a cold chill down my spine. Now it has a nice ring to it. Such is politics. In his much-anticipated inaugural address, our new commander-in-chief proclaimed “an end to the petty grievances and false promises, the recriminations and worn out dogmas, that for far too long have strangled our politics.” Mindful that some in the crowd no doubt voted for the man he vanquished on Nov. 4, the president urged “unity of purpose over conflict and discord.” I could not agree more. Republican or Democrat, liberal or conservative, the time has come to rally around the former senator from Illinois. He is our president now. To many Republicans, such a statement will seem treasonous, as if their primary loyalty should be to the Republican Party, and they should wish every Democratic elected official failure, ruin and disgrace. Indeed, it is common to find on conservative blogs something like this: “I can’t wait for Obama to screw this country up, because when he does, then everyone will realize their mistake and put Republicans back in power!” What is left of George Washington would be rolling in his grave. He feared political parties for that exact reason. When people become Republicans or Democrats first and Americans second, they forget the purpose of government is to serve the people, not provide power to their political factions. Radical Democrats were guilty of this when they salivated over every failure in Iraq because the political damage it did to President Bush was oh-so-sweet. That fanatical Republicans are prepared to rejoice over the possible failure of President Obama’s policies is equally inexcusable. This does not mean that everyone should become a liberal and agree with Obama’s ideology; I certainly won’t. It is the duty of the Republican Party, as the opposition, to point out the new president’s mistakes and offer a competing vision for how America should be run. Yet it would be a horrible betrayal of every soldier who died for this country to hope for failure just to prove the other guy wrong. As a conservative, I don’t think Obama’s massive new government spending will fix the economy. But I hope it does. I think some of his foreign policy will be a disaster. But I hope it isn’t. Better for my ideology to be proved false than my country brought to its knees. There are more important things than scoring political points. At heart, we are all Americans, and we all want our country to be safe, prosperous and secure, though we may think that is best achieved through differing means....

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Military life takes toll on children, families

Approximately 1.2 million children live in U.S. military families. Although most children experience moving at least once during childhood, the typical military family moves every two to three years. There are currently 222 bases in the United States alone, along with 737 U.S. military bases located overseas in 63 different countries. There is no telling where a soldiers family may be stationed next. A “military brat” is the term used for a person whose parent or parents have served full-time in the armed forces during the person’s childhood. These so called “brats” have to grow up learning to cope with the stress of being offspring of an American soldier. Studies on military families have shown that in general, children who move frequently experience greater difficulty making friends, more school-related difficulties and have more emotional and behavioral problems than children who move less frequently. Children are just expected by their military parents to uproot their lives for the supposedly greater good of the family. The military probably couldn’t do its job without the strongly held beliefs of soldiers and officers regarding the importance of honor. Military service is a respectful job responsible for defending this great country. To what extent though, do the children of these heroes have to suffer for their country? For many, geographic mobility is the most stressful aspect to growing up in a military family. It’s not fair for these children to be put into high anxiety situations at their most vulnerable stages of life. Childhood should be spent focusing on developing positive friendships with peers and increasing academic status. How are the children supposed to do so when they have to relocate and leave all their familiar settings behind? It is a vicious cycle that will never end until the parent retires or is discharged from his or her position. The only hope that the children will have is the fact that at the legal age of 18, they can then decide where and when they want to move. A study by Dr. Jeffrey D Leitzel found that adolescents in military families who had to adjust to a move reported significantly more difficulty leaving their old friends and making new friends than did youths from civilian families. Furthermore, delays in making new friends were associated with feelings of loneliness, depression and social alienation, while a longer length of time in their current residence was associated with fewer symptoms of depression. In the end, it is the parents’ decision alone. They are the only ones who decide to choose the military as their career of choice. It is a free country, and it’s also our free...

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Customer disservice

By Ashley Taylor The customer is always right. Right? Not necessarily, but who would know with the way people behave today? American businesses drill their employees with the idea that the customer is always right, even when they are wrong. It’s a concept that makes sense. A business serves the customer, and the happy customer purchases goods or services. The purchases make profit, and it’s a wonderfully complete circle in the business realm. In the pharmacy business, as in many other retail positions, the customer happens to be wrong much of the time. Unfortunately, people suffer from instant gratification syndrome and the entitlement bug. The idea that a person deserves something free of charge and instantaneously has become a national phenomenon. What happens when a controlled substance is being abused, and a third party insurance company steps in? Or when privacy practices are not met because customers feel they are more important than some “imaginary line” that tells them to wait their turn? Studies have been shown that these behaviors could indeed be psychological disorders. An impulse control test, performed in a variety of ways, reveals how some people could be lacking an important emotional intelligence trait. In the tests performed by universities, children are given a gift but must complete a task before receiving it. The children who could not control their impulses were studied later in their childhood and were found to be irritable and sulky. The children who were patient were attentive and competent. So why is it that these monitored, and obviously bad, traits are never addressed? The basic rules parents teach children are thrown out the door. People don’t need to use manners. Anyone can cut in line. There’s no need to pay the cashier any money, let alone a kind word. And curse words are a familiar second language. When customers are told that it is simply impossible to complete their order, or that it could take 15 minutes to complete, they revert back to the childhood tantrums they had in Toys-R-Us screaming, “It’s not fair. I want it now.” The screaming fit only results in managerial action to satisfy the immediate need. The employee performing the duties and abiding by the laws in the pharmaceutical realm is scolded for right doing. Poor behavior and disrespect are rewarded, while a manager drones on, “The customer is always right.” Entitlement should not be encouraged in businesses. Employees should be treated with respect and dignity just like the customer. The business cycle only functions when employees do their jobs. Kind words and patience are key motivations for a job well done, and you’ll find most...

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Saviors for hire

Nobody wants to do what is necessary to stop the world’s worst conflicts. These days, it’s popular to talk about ending genocide in Sudan or rescuing child soldiers in Uganda. United Nations bureaucrats talk of peace through endless “conferences.” Facebook groups urging an “end” to the latest atrocity make people feel better by signing up. Little is accomplished. Wars continue, families still die, and children still fight. There is one way to end much of it. It is not popular, politically correct, or good for Facebook groups. But it works, and it has been done before. Elizabeth Rubin, contributing writer for the New York Times, documented the stunning course of a civil war that tore apart the coastal African nation of Sierra Leone from 1991 to 1995. A nasty group of rebels known as the Revolutionary United Front (RUF) threatened to overrun the country. Composed partly of drugged-up child soldiers, the RUF took particular delight in chopping off the limbs and genitals of civilians they came across. Often they would amputate the breasts of nursing mothers or smash their kneecaps with hammers. As the homicidal rebels approached the capital of Freetown, help seemed impossible. The UN and powerful nations eagerly sent promises, “concerns,” and platitudes, but no troops. So the president of Sierra Leone turned in desperation to his last resort. He contacted a private security company called “Executive Outcomes (EO),” composed mostly of former South African special forces soldiers. For $15 million and diamond mining concessions, EO agreed to do what the UN would not: rid Sierra Leone of the psychotic arm-choppers. Against a rebel force numbering in the thousands, EO deployed 300 elite soldiers and a helicopter gunship. Within a month, they had almost completely driven the RUF from Sierra Leone. No more limbs were chopped off or children abducted. The country held its first presidential elections in almost 30 years. In some villages, people lined the streets to cheer these “mercenaries” who stopped the carnage. Unfortunately, it did not last, as the UN and the World Bank ordered Sierra Leone to cancel its contract with Executive Outcomes. When the mercenaries left, the rebels returned. Only this time, they took over the country and inaugurated a reign of terror. Sierra Leone should serve as a lesson. When genocide, civil war, or limb-chopping happens, the solution is not to negotiate, hold conferences or sell T-shirts. The best, most effective response is overwhelming military force. Because the president of Sierra Leone knew that, 300 mercenaries did in a month what the UN, the “international community,” and every advocacy group on the planet could not. Had Executive Outcomes been allowed...

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Early marriages unwise, harmful
Dec09

Early marriages unwise, harmful

It seems that more and more people are getting married at a young age lately. This is a bad idea. People have their whole lives ahead of them, and yet they decide at the tender age of 19 that they have found “the one.” Nonsense. At this age, most people have so much more growing up to do that there is no way they can handle marriage. This commitment is the mother of all commitments. It’s not one that should be taken lightly, and young people often don’t realize the seriousness of it. Where are the parents in all this? One would think that they would have some sort of say in the whole matter, that they wouldn’t let their child fall into something that is almost sure to fail. Almost 50% of all marriages in the country end in divorce, and the younger couples are, the more likely they are to separate. So what is the rush? Why do young people who “think” they are so madly in love feel the need to tie the knot so early? Infatuation. Everyone has fallen victim to it at some point. It’s the feeling that comes over people when relationships first begin. Everything is butterflies and hearts, and it seems as if nothing could possibly go wrong. Both people are bright eyed and bushy tailed over one another and can’t seem to get enough of one another. It’s at this point when couples believe there is no one else for them and they have found that special person. For some reason, people think this is the best time to decide they want to marry, which could not be a more terrible decision. Infatuation is only temporary. Around six to eight months is when couples start having serious issues: Is he spending too much time with his friends? Are they spending too much time with each other? Arguments will often happen over the silliest of things. It is about this time when they start to see the real person they have been dating, and the “newness” of the relationship ceases to exist. At this time, they must step back and ask themselves a few questions: Am I willing to work through these issues we are having, and do I really want to continue down this path with this person? Unfortunately, for some people, it is too late. They’ve already taken the plunge into marriage, and they’re stuck in a downward spiral that ends in divorce. This tragedy can be easily avoided with a simple, yet often overlooked solution. Wait. Wait until you’re at least 30 years old to marry. By then, the...

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