Neuman says farewell to school she loves
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If I could have magically told my freshman self how fast college was going to fly by, I might not have believed it – even coming from my own lips. I don’t think I would have believed how much I would “grow up” either.
I can still remember crying (sometimes secretly, sometimes not so secretly) nearly every time I called home. Being three and half hours’ drive away was hard.
I am so thankful difficulties like that have stretched me, challenged me to know why I believe what I believe, and have given me loads of fun and new friends along the way.
In just a few short days, I will be crying that I have to leave this place. The University of Mary Hardin-Baylor is truly special.
Not too long ago, I was walking through the Quad and had one of those “flood of memories” moments. I remembered the first time I got a tour of the campus.
I remembered the first day of Welcome Week when my parents drove away, leaving me in a dorm room full of half-unpacked brown boxes. I remembered putting off homework to play intramural flag football games (Go Fightin’ Mongeeses!).
I thought about the time my roommate and I made a snowman, Lil’ Jack, from the ice shavings in our mini-fridge. I remembered being freaked
out by the first round of finals, and making a gazillion note cards for a biology test. I remembered eating sandwiches for lunch in Hardy almost every day, and being so excited when my roomie and I got to move into Huckins our sophomore year.
I remember some of my biggest fears that now seem silly – like Did I choose the right major? Does so-and-so notice me? How am I going to get all this homework done? Did I take on too many tasks?
My advice to my fellow Crusaders who still have time to serve:
Activities are good. Get plugged in to something you love and that keeps you busy (if you let yourself get bored too much, you’ll feel lonely).
Meet lots of people, and remember to take the time to build close relationships with an inner circle.
When your freshman-year crush doesn’t ever ask you out, don’t worry! Though it may feel like everyone’s getting a ring, not everyone is. Waiting for God’s timing is worth it.
Too much procrastination can hurt your brain and your heart. Find the balance in your schedule – between scholarship and recreation.
Enjoy it! My mom once told me that college was one of the most fun chapters of life.
They say time flies when you’re having fun, and I’ve had tons.
Another thing I remembered on my walk – being dubbed by former university
President Jerry Bawcom. As I knelt beside Luther Memorial, he said, “I dub thee a Crusader for life.”
And that I am.
Neuman is The Bells editor and a graduating senior.